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Learn How To Stop Bullying
One needs to Stop Bullying especially in children who are much more vulnerable and can be mentally and emotionally marred by an act of bullying.In that case, it can leave long-lasting scars. Bullies have been about since time immemorial but regardless of the level to which bullying is done, it is important that parents attempt critical tones to stop bullying. Bullying can happen in many forms and forms and even though it is not instantly evident but the effects of bullying connected violence can demonstrate themselves even as a victim grows old, making it extremely crucial that you take steps to Stop Bullying.
Emotionally bullying a victim is another tactics that bullies recourse to, in order to make the weakened victim sad and desperate. That is another manoeuvre they try out.The design is to bring about emotional agitation in the victim. As an instance a bully might keep attempting to embarrass a victim who is highly shy, in front of their acquaintances. The purpose of the bully is bring about anguish and desperation in the victims as the victims might not be in a place to fend for themselves and might not be able to share their feelings with anyone. Since the outcomes of such an open emotional bullying can stay with a person for a lasting period of time and be detrimental in the development of a sound adult, it becomes crucial to Stop Bullying when it starts and also to understand how to stop bullying.
Bullying can also be in the form of physical violence and is undertaken more by bullies who were physically exploited themselves at some point of time.This form of bullying is more prevailing in older kids.
If you, as parents, can stop bullying then you will be making certain that your kids develop both emotionally and physically. So stop bullying now.Keep the communication channels between you and your child accessible and open. You might look for some telling signs of bullying such as torn clothes, your child being over subdued and sorrowful and often the presence of wounds. Speak to your child and aid them master fear and shame and share their opinions with you.
One way to stop bullying in your child's life is to let them discover skills and ways to handle with bullying and particularly with bullies.It ordinarily works to dismiss a bully since they do not get the response they were anticipating. Being with a circle of friends at all times can aid boost the confidence of a child and hence more prospects to stop bullying. In extreme cases, parents might wish to talk to the school if all previous means to stop bullying do not succeed. The school should select proper measures to stop bullying and ascertaining that no trauma comes to the child. Ensuring that your child is not harmed in any way is the number one concern for any parent and that is why trying to learn how to stop bullying has high importance.
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I HATE HIM SOOO MUCH....but i love him too..? :(?
There's this guy in my grade and he's a real douchebag. He's always really mean to girls that aren't pretty or whatever. He never talked to me before and then he started randomly saying hi to me every time he saw me. But he was never really mean to me...he just did stupid things like poke me and cover my eyes so that i couldnt see. He never really talks to me. I've told him countless times to stop bullying girls (he's known for it) and he just won't. He constantly stares at me in class or like he'll come stand really close to where i'm standing but he doesn't say a word. He's a real asshole and I hate him so much I wish the girls he bullies would stand up for themselves. But I also kind of love him...its really weird..I notice his dimples everytime he smiles. I notice the way the little crinkle appears on the bridge of his nose when he's focusing..I notice the way he works so hard to get a's in math. I notice how hot he looks everyday..I notice the way he drums his fingers on his desk over and over again..i notice how he's so respectful to his teachers...I notice how he's so neat when it comes to writing or homework..I notice how amazing he is at soccer and how he sort of seems to show off when i'm around...and then I notice everytime he glances (or i think he does) at me and my heart skips a beat and then I hate myself for it. I feel so self conscious whenever i know he's staring at me..But we don't talk. Sometimes he says hi but i usually ignore it. He thinks i hate him and I kind of do and kind of don't..i just dont think he would take it well if he found out i kind of liked him. One time i was sitting against the wall in gym and he walked up and he was like "Are you okay?" and I was like "yeah.." and then he got red and he said "that's good for you." Wtf? I don't know what to do. I can never be with him and I don't think he would even want to be with me. He has a girlfriend. Him, his girlfriend, and me are in the same language class. At the beginning of the year, he stared at her A LOT (i knew because i sat next to her) and then he finally asked her out. I think he only liked her because shes popular, shes not really that pretty. She also has really bad breath (i knew because i sat next to her) and he seems to be getting sick of her because they sit together now and i sit across the room. I always notice her scootching her desk close to his and flirting with him. And he always like hugs her or starts playing with her hair but he's looking at me the whole time to see if i notice or something. If he catches me looking, he becomes even more affectionate with her...sometimes i imagine that its me hes doing that stuff to. It makes me really sick to think that i could like this kid. He always smells so goood though and stays so clean, unlike other boys in my grade.:/ What should i do to stop liking this kid? I really dont want to be stuck like this because i cant freaking get him out of my mind. Thank you. :)
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Any essay topics I can write about?
I need some topics to write an essay for my school...PLEASE HELP MEE!!!!
-cries- im out of ideas :(
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I am being bullied? :(?
Well, this is me. I am being bullied. I have been bullied since fourth to beginning of middle school. Those were horrific times. They stopped but now its a new person, and the worst part is that he's younger than me! :( What should i do?
I am a girl. He's not mean in a physical way but in an emotional way, he is very inappropriate! He calls me a prostitute! :( The thing is that when I was young I went to the counseler's office and she dealt with it but a couple of months later it happened again. I don't want to repeat the same thing.....
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why do i feel this way about my family?
in my immediate family I have my little brother my mom dad and grandma. I hold no emotional attachment to my brother or my mom and I openly despise my dad.my grandma I like though.my dad drinks a lot and that causes a lot of fighting between me and my parents and just between them.im having a hard time getting this out right. i don't want to sound like some stupid teenage girl that is just have angst issues. because im not.im 16 but these feelings just didn't appear out of know where after a fight.iv been battling these for so many years I cant even remember when it all started.my mom is a stay at home mom and my dad works as an order worker at a Kroger warehouse.my family has a very long history of drinking,drug use and mental ward patience.from when I was very young I remember feeling a little concern if my mom was hurt but over the years that little concern has shriveled intio nothing.i cant bring myself to feel anything other than annoyance with being forced to share a living space.with my brother its a bit different. I would have taken a bullet for him until a few years ago. and with my father I have hated him so much for so long that I don't even remember what started those feelings. ill go in depth with my relationship with each person so its easier to understand.
my mom is first.we don't get along,at all.she is one of thoseLady'ss that refuses to wear make up and dress nicly unless its a wedding or afunerall.she despises all things that arnt natural and likes spending time outside in the garden. she gets verydefensivee and will scream her head off if something isn't done the way she wants it when she wants it done.she is very two faced,will be nice and polite upfront but the moment you turn around she will call you every name in the book and just loud enough that you can hear it from across the room. I amextremelyy different than my mother.i like Lolita fashion and dressing up just beouce I can. i love make up, wigs, and anime.i love to sit and read my history books and coo over cute cat pictures on facebook.i prefer foreign things than American things.i don't like sports and I don't like getting my hands dirty for some stupid flowers.normallyy this is wear someone butts in and says its just because our personality's clash but I know that's not true. she says she "supports"me but her actions state otherwise. im constantly being yelled at and even though I don't feel much if anything for her the the insults she constly throws at me hurts.she told my brother just the other day that I had "ruined myself" because I wouldn't listen to anything she trys to teach me. i wont listen because I hold no respect for her.if I do one thing she dosnts like ,it dosnt matter how small it is.im told iv ruined the day. theres just so much that I could put on here about our relationship..but I must move onto the next relationship
my brother. for years we played ok(the games wernt always safe and sometimes involed rope around someone neck...but we still played fine)then I remember being told I had to protect him.that he was the last male in our family worth a damn and had to have children when he go older so I was to protect him.at first I was ok with it and I did I would stop bullies from going near him ect. ect. but I was placed on meds as a child for ADD and ADHD that messed with me.i was always in a fog, couldnt concentrate on anything, so I stoped takeing them( I know by now your wondering what does this have anything to do with m relatoionship with my brother?please just continue reading)I found as I stoped takeing them I got angry,mean,and very violent.my parents would forceme to take them but I would stash them anywhere I could just so I would have a clear head again.because of the pillsside effects still in my system I wouldn't be able to remember what happened when I got angry and mean.because of these damn side effects I remember next to nothing from the age of 5 to 12 and what I do remember isn't pleasant. according to my parents I tormented my brother during those angry and mean in-between times with my meds. and by the time the doctor said I could stop takeing the pills it was to late and my relationship with my brother was ruined .i tried to fix it but we just drifted apart.
now onto my father...ugh I despise this man. I have such a hard time even coming up with words to describe him and our relationship...he drinks.not as much as he used to..but he does drink and he get violent when he drinks.and sometimes he gets violent when he is just plain angry. mom blames for a lot of it though.says the stress I couse by not doing as im told is what makes him yell and drink.
i have zero problem getting along and forming emotional attachments with other people and family members.i do happen to get very attached to objects and animals.i also get very attached to fictional characters from books sand anime and thing like that i have given up ever getting along with them..my family sees me as stupid bitch who is only ever thinking of herself.when im repeatedly told just the opposite b Everyone else.i have given up on ever being a family with them.i just would like to know how i can go through the next 2 years of being forced to live with them without murdering them or them murdering me.please and thank you
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How to stop bullying?
I'm being bullied by my so-called "best friend", shes bullying me since 2 years now, I know shes using me, when I got better grades in exams than her she would always say: "how could you be smarter than me? I'm always listening to the lessons"(even though she always talks to her seatmate) then she will crumple my examsheet a little. If I got sick she will come by to give me my homework and says: "your not even sick, you're so lazy" (I got a terrible fever that day). When I got something new she will always say: "I'm working hard to get what I want, but you'll have everything you want" (its not true because I do all the housechorse at home and have good grades, those were my reward for my hardwork). She is copying my answers in the exams, if I don't let her she will hurt me and I got bruises all over my body, I tried to answer wrong and correct it later on she will still pinch me in my arms for answering wrong. When I don't do what she wants she'll hurt me, I said stop it, she still doesn't stop. During the lessons she will kick my feet, pinch my arm, write something in my notebooks and books. After the lesson she will try to hide my books and notebooks even my key. (I'm always going to the toilet in the break) When she doesn't have her homework she will always steel my notes and copy it. She will damage my things and sometimes steel my colorpencils. She borrows money from me and never gives it back ( told her to give the money back but always says tomorrow i'll give it back then forgets it and so one, I never got my money back). She says bad stuff about me and my family, but i pretend not to hear what shes saying (It really gets on my nerves) when i say something like she is fat (she really is fat) she'll hurt me and says irritating stuff again. Then she will say some bad stuff about me to my other friends. I asked the teacher to transfer my seat but then she will always hurt me during breaks, she wants me to bring her everytime home, she wants me to sleep over at her home all the time (i always say no), shes going to hurt me and treathen me with her dog anyway, she also lets me do the chorse she has to do while she is playing, like i'm some personal maid or something. If I try fighting back she will just hit me harder and cry making me the bully. I can't take it anymore! I'm not enjoying school at all, I'm getting sick of seeing her face everyday, hearing her annoying voice everyday, and feeling pain every day! I can't tell my mother that i'm being bullied because she'll have to leave the school if I do, the pricipal and my uncle are friends, I can't tell the teachers either she'll have to leave the school too, I also tried staying away from her but she keeps clinging to me. Can anyone please help me with my problems? I'm going insane, I could maybe hurt her in the future if this goes on!!
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I'm really sick of being called a retard?
Well I'm 15 and I have aspergers and dyslexia and I go to a really good school (apparently) where we are put into classes from (a-g) depending on intelligence. I myself got put in a then got moved down to b where I'm doing my gcses at. I'm predicted mainly As and a couple of Bs but I'm currently working at b standard in everything ( I'm planning to go into tryhard mode early February next year). Unlike most people thoughts on aspergers I have quite a few friends (not just the weird ones although I have a few of those to) plus I used to go to special lessons but I decided not to go to it because of the obvious social segregation. I'm entitled to extra time I don't use it for the same reason.so back to the question I'm called a retard sometimes and it really hurts far more than anything else imaginable. I've done some stuff in the past were I've publicly humiliated myself for one reason or another and because of this I don't have any confidence to ask the question to avoid the humiliation. ( although I've kept track and I've never done something like that in 6 months). It gets to me when people call you that when you do something to mildly to upset them. I used to have this kid who ribbed the piss out of me about it everyday for a year until one day everyone kicked off with him and he had no friends for a fortnight, since then he's been better almost likeable. However that sticks in your mind forever and many of the people who observed it have adopted it. Today the ginger kid with no friends (I'm not lying he's really violent towards people also when he doesn't get his own way against someone who's tougher than him (I could be in that category if I wanted too) he would go to the office and file a complaint/ bullying form and/or go home. I'm serious it's getting me down could someone tell me what to do or your basic thoughts?
Also my friends don't know about the aspergers
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I've been falsely reported for bullying and might get expelled! What should I do?
There's this girl [the same one i mentioned in my previous questions] and she's reported me for nearly everything under the sun to my school and now I might get expelled.
To elaborate, a while ago she became jealous of me because I had most of my art projects being put on display while none of hers were. She told me to stop drawing, stole my sketchbook and showed it around while I was begging her to give it back, she'd rip out pages, point out everything wrong with the drawings and threaten to show it to everyone and ended up telling everyone I had been drawing "porn". She's punched me, thrown her binder at me, and has overall treated me terribly, but she still hung out with me and called me her best friend.
Then one day she mentioned that she was planning to report one of our "mutual" friends for bullying just because our friend had made a joke about the fact that she had been going to restroom for 20 minutes in every class they had together. I told her that they should just talk it out, but then she called me stupid and said that I was worthless and immature and didn't understand anything. I got fed up and yelled at her to do the mature thing and talk it out with our friend. I walked off and later she ran up to me crying, tried to punch me, and screamed that I was a whore [I don't know why, I've never even dated anyone, so I don't get why she'd choose that particular word] Then she ran off after I tried to hold her back and tell her to calm down. Later I texted her that I hadn't meant to restrain her so harshly, but I didn't know what I did and that I wasn't sorry because I didn't see anything to be sorry for and asked for her point of view. Then her mother texted me to stop bullying her daughter and I asked what I did that constituted as bullying. Her mother then called me immature and then she texted me later that I had been reported to the school. I didn't take the time to read the list considering how it was about as long as one of those terms of agreements things, but most of the reasons were complete nonsense.
The friend she was planning to report originally is still friends with her and she still hangs out with my group and tries to make me uncomfortable, even hitting me with her lunch box and pretending that it was an accident [I'm not allowed to talk to her or else I'll get expelled for sure.] Yesterday another friend asked about it and I told them the whole situation and that she had originally planned to report one of them before me.
Nearly everyday she goes into the behavioral office and complains about me and she and her mother are still trying to get me expelled even though it's been two months. She trash talks me with other people [but they don't believe her since they know me] and she's complained to the school about other people for practically no reason before.
What should I do? I really don't want to get expelled, but I don't want to come off as sensitive to my friends. I really don't know what to do and this is causing me a lot of stress, please help me!
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How do I apologize to this boy?
Currenly in 9th grade and still can't sleep over what I did to this boy. Something that you shouldn't do to a boy (the one thing you do only if he's about to rape me) but I did during a stupid dare a bunch of girls made me do. I only did it so they would stop bullying.
Though this has happened about 4 months ago, I still feel terrible. Was trying to apologize to him and he end up backing away from me fact (probably thinking I was gonna do something again) and told me to get lost.
I made him throw up and that's also something I still have trouble sleeping. I hope he's now alright and will be able to have kids.
When I read a link about how it can ruin a boy's chance of being a father, I almost wanted to cry. That's something I wouldn't be able to get over.
I feel no different than those stupid girls, like a bully. I feel I turned into someone I always hated.
Yes, I've been trying to apologize countless times (even by letter) and he doesn't even want to see my face. He's always getting away from me when I'm there. I didn't mean to cause. I'm sorry.
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I have a Facebook page named Stop Bullying & Make a Change?
I really want to make my page popular but only 12 or 11 people like it. I sent invites to all my friends but not a lot replayed to like my page. I understand. People don't really pay attentchan to invites. I also told the people who liked it to share the page with other people but they didn't. I can't afford to get an adervitisement. Is there anyway I can get a lot of people to see it and like it. I want to get this page seen around the world and help stop bullying. Can anyone help?
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